Align your integrity
with your core values.
A personal map to navigate self, life, work, and relationships.
Most people can name their values.
Far fewer are actually living them.
Not because they don't care, but because most have long inherited values that were never examined and don't realize those very beliefs are driving them unconsciously. They shape patterns, drive decisions, and create friction — in ourselves, our relationships, and our work — that we can't explain.
But values aren't fixed — not even the inherited ones. Some you earned through experience, the hard seasons, losses, and significant moments that changed you. And some are ones you consciously aspire to as you grow into who you're choosing to become.
The gap between what you believe and how you actually live is where it gets complicated:
- Decisions that look right on paper but feel wrong in your body
- The same conflict on repeat — and never quite getting to the root of it
- Values you can name but a life that doesn't truthfully reflect them
- There's a pattern that takes you off your path. You just can't stop it.
- Wanting to go deeper with someone — and needing to know you're truly aligned, not just surface compatible
- A decision in front of you and no clarity on whether it's coming from your truth or from pressure
The Relationship Map™ is a values-alignment framework that helps you examine what you actually believe and what those beliefs need to stay intact — so you can stop living on auto-pilot and start making choices you can stand behind.
What is The Relationship Map™?
TRM is a structured framework built around one core idea:
- Your values don't just describe who you are — they reveal whether you're actually living as that person.
It works in three layers:
- Your core values — the beliefs driving everything, inherited, earned, and chosen.
- The principles around each value — the needs that nourish it, the wants that bring it alive, the boundaries that protect it, and the deal-breakers that define where it can't be compromised.
- Patterns + priorities — so you can see what's been running on autopilot, and get clear on what to actually focus on and act from.
The Free Quick Start Guide is where you begin — turning your inner world into something you can finally see, follow, and bring into your relationships.
What People Have to Say
Inside Your Free Quick Start Guide
Inside you’ll receive:
✔ The full Map structure and how the layers connect
✔ The three types of values — and how to identify yours
✔ Guided prompts to fill in your Map honestly
✔ How to rate your current alignment across each value
✔ First steps for moving from insight into action
Walk away knowing your values, what they need to stay intact, what threatens them, and where your life is — and isn't — reflecting them.
I'm Jocelyn
The Relationship Map Creator, Reader & Guide.
I created TRM because life has asked me to reinvent myself more than once — through relationships, major relocations, career shifts, and the ongoing work of becoming.
Each time, the same questions returned:
What stays true to my core? And who am I becoming now?
I’ve spent over 14 years working with people through transformation — as a spiritual guide, a life coach, and the founder/mentor of a 200+ women’s community where we spoke and lived our truth aloud. With a background in Communications and Sociology, and Learning & Development in corporate environments, I deeply understand how people grow, how identity shifts, and how to create frameworks that actually work in real life.
Still, when I needed it most, I didn’t have a map.
In leaving a significant relationship, my home, work and direction in life was completely turned upside down. I had to reclaim what was mine while becoming someone new. I needed clarity — not just emotionally, but structurally.
So I designed a framework that makes your core value system visible. A map you can return to whenever something feels off — to see what needs tending, and make aligned decisions in relationships, work, and life.
It changed my life for good!
Got a job within two months, settled my mindset, and got into my dream field of study once I knew what I truly wanted. The whole experience meeting you Jocelyn was life changing if I might say. Truly learned to live more intentional.
Want deeper insights?
1:1 Map Readings
We explore your Map together — the way an astrologer reads a birth chart, but instead of the stars, we're reading you: your values, your patterns, your alignment, and what's actually driving the situation you're in.
I'll share what I see clearly and honestly — the places you're living in integrity, the places you're not, and what's underneath the friction or decision you're facing. You'll leave with a clear picture of where you are, what needs attention, and what your next honest step looks like.
Follow along as I use the Map in real life
© 2025 Jocelyn Lee. All rights reserved. The Relationship Map™ is an original framework created and owned by Jocelyn Lee.
For personal use only. Do not copy, distribute, or modify without permission.
