Align your integrity
with your core values.
A personal map to navigate self, life, work, and relationships.
Feeling out of alignment?
Maybe you:
➷ Feel like you should know yourself by now — but can't quite articulate what you need or want
➷ Keep making decisions that look right on paper — but don't feel right in your body
➷ Want to understand why certain patterns keep repeating in your relationships or career
➷ Are navigating a big transition and need a clearer sense of who you're becoming
➷ Know your values intellectually — but aren't sure if your life actually reflects them
➷ Need to make a decision and want to know it's coming from your truth, not pressure or habit
The Relationship Map™ helps you see yourself clearly — the values guiding you, the needs nourishing you, the boundaries protecting you — so you can navigate what's next with integrity and alignment.
What is The Relationship Map™?
The Relationship Map is an alignment framework that helps you understand:
your core values that guide you
needs, wants + boundaries that nourish them
boundaries & deal-breakers that protect
patterns + priorities to focus on
where your actions do — or don’t align
where you disconnect from yourself and how to return integrity
The Free Quick Start Guide gives you the foundation, starting with values, needs, wants, boundaries, and deal-breakers.
Turning your inner world into something visible — so you can understand yourself first, then bring that clarity into your life and relationships.
What People Have to Say
Inside Your Free Quick Start Guide
Inside you’ll receive:
✔ A simple, elegant overview of the Map
✔ Prompts to help you fill it in
✔ Understanding of 3 types of values
✔ How to understand yourself through your Map
✔ The steps to begin applying insight into action
You'll walk away with a truer sense of yourself:
- the values that guide you,
- the needs that nourish you,
- the wants that awaken you,
- the boundaries that protect you
- and deal-breakers that are non-negotiable
Clarity you can actually use immediately in your life.
I'm Jocelyn
Your Seer, Guide, and The Relationship Map Creator
I created TRM because life has asked me to reinvent myself more than once — through relationships, major location moves, career shifts, and the ongoing work of becoming.
Each time, the same questions returned:
What stays true to my core? And who am I becoming now?
I’ve spent over 14 years working with people through transformation — as a spiritual guide, a life coach, and the founder/mentor of a women’s community where we spoke and lived our truth aloud. With a background in Communications and Sociology, and Learning & Development in corporate environments, I deeply understand how people grow, how identity shifts, and how to create frameworks that actually work in real life.
Still, when I needed it most, I didn’t have a map.
I lost myself in a significant relationship and had to reclaim what was mine while becoming someone new. I needed clarity — not just emotionally, but structurally.
So I designed a framework that makes your core value system visible. A map you can return to whenever something feels off — to see what needs tending, and make aligned decisions in relationships, work, and life.
In a disorienting world, staying in relationship with your own values is how we become our own authority.
It changed my life for good!
Got a job within two months, settled my mindset, and got into my dream field of study once I knew what I truly wanted. The whole experience meeting you Jocelyn was life changing if I might say. Truly learned to live more intentional.
Why Is the Guide Free?
In a world of constant change — shifting identities, evolving relationships, societal upheaval — it's easy to lose touch with what truly matters to you.
I believe this is human education we all need right now.
In times of unprecedented disconnect and disorientation — in how we relate to the world, each other, and ourselves — having your own inner map and compass isn't a luxury. It's essential.
And the changes of our times require value aligned and integral people and the basics of values, truth, and clarity should be accessible to everyone.
For now, this full foundational guide, the one that helps you begin mapping who you are and what truly matters is my gift to you.
FREE Workshop
How to live your values with integrity
This workshop is based on the Quick Start Guide so if doing this work solo is more your style, start there.
But if you want to go through it with my guidance, have dedicated time to actually fill it out, and ask questions along the way — join the free online workshop.
I hope to see you on the call with all the other folks who want to live with their values aligned and integrity.
Date & Time:
Sunday, March 1st (90 minutes)
10:30am PST | 1:30pm EST | 7:30pm CET
Want deeper insights?
1:1 Map Readings
We explore your Map together — the way an astrologer reads a birth chart, but instead of the stars, we're reading you: your values, your patterns, your alignment, and how best to get to where you're going next.
My role is to be your guide. I know the movement of change well. I'll share what I see, ask questions that help uncover what's beneath the surface, and support you in the actions you need to take — with clarity, honesty and kindness.
Follow along as I use the Map in real life
© 2025 Jocelyn Lee. All rights reserved. The Relationship Map™ is an original framework created and owned by Jocelyn Lee.
For personal use only. Do not copy, distribute, or modify without permission.
